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Kirsten Cheong

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Current Availability:

Availability ranges Monday-Tuesday 8am-4pm & Thursday-Friday 8am-4pm. Call 760-281-3364 for openings

Kirsten Cheong remote and phone therapy in CaliforniaKirsten Cheong remote and phone therapy in California
Provides therapy in California

About Me:

  • My clients describe me as:

    Clients describe me as friendly & relatable but upfront when needed. My goal is to get to know your anxiety so well I can call it out during session.

  • Something to know about my approach is:

    I am relatable and friendly but with healthy boundaries. I can model for you what confident boundary-setting looks like so you can see that it's possible to overcome anxious people-pleasing. We don't just talk, we problem-solve so you can thrive.

  • Together, we will:

    Together we will identify the root cause of your anxiety and people-pleasing. We will explore how people-pleasing became your go-to coping mechanism, then unlearn it. We will use real life circumstances you're in to practice healthy boundaries.

  • I specialize in working with people who:

    I specialize in working with anxious people-pleasers who want to learn how to set boundaries with family, friends, work, and time. People-pleasing is an avoidant coping skill that serves us by not dealing with the real issue at hand.

  • I became a therapist because:

    I also struggled with anxiety, overthinking, and people-pleasing and know how debilitating it feels. I sought out the same healing I wish to give you.

  • Something that stands out about where I offer therapy is:

    Therapy is 100% online. You can be anywhere in California and meet with me for your appointment, despite your busy schedule.

  • More about me and my practice:

    I guide my clients from a knowing place. I am a recovering anxious people-pleaser and I hope to be a guide to those who are still suffering. There is freedom and light an the end of this tunnel. You just can't see it yet because the tunnel is curved.

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In-Network with:

Aetna, Optum Health, Oscar Health, UnitedHealthcare

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