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Infidelity is so widespread that most of us will deal with it in some form or another. If you’re in a relationship that has been touched by infidelity, you may be aware of the destruction it can cause. Whether you’ve had an affair or you’re reeling after finding out your partner cheated, you may be experiencing a range of emotions and mental issues, from hate and guilt to depression and PTSD.

It can also be difficult to address your relationship’s underlying issues at home while emotions are running high. This is where a licensed therapist can help. Wherever you are located in California from Alameda to Yucaipa or even Montclair, or anywhere else nearby, Mental Health Match can help you easily find an experienced therapist or counselor who best meets your needs.

Signs You Should Consider Infidelity Therapy

Here are some signs that you should consider infidelity therapy:

  • You feel depressed and find it difficult to get through the day.
  • You have considered being violent towards yourself or someone else.
  • You are uncertain about how you should move forward or if you should end your relationship.
  • You feel guilt or shame about your partner’s infidelity.
  • You feel like you can never trust anyone again.
  • You feel like you might commit infidelity again

If any of the above apply to you, we advise you to consider infidelity therapy and get on the path to infidelity recovery. To find out more about how to move forward, read licensed therapist Rebecca Ray’s guide to infidelity recovery.

Recover with an Infidelity Therapist

Infidelity recovery can go much smoother with a trained professional to help you through the ups and downs of healing. With Mental Health Match, finding a qualified infidelity therapist is easy! Start by browsing experts below or by using our free therapist matching tool.

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Julia Malone
Together, we will:

learn to understand triggers and emotions safely, find confidence and clarity in your decision making, create boundaries, and learn to communicate more effectively. We will navigate and heal the relationships with the people you care about the most.


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Together, we will:

learn to understand triggers and emotions safely, find confidence and clarity in your decision making, create boundaries, and learn to communicate more effectively. We will navigate and heal the relationships with the people you care about the most.

Something to know about my approach is:

I am a client-centered and trauma informed therapist. Once we have discussed your history, we will create a plan to build upon your strengths so you feel seen, challenged, and empowered. I am honored to walk through this healing journey with you.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Affair Recovery
  • Anger Management
  • Childhood Trauma
  • Communication Issues
  • Depression
  • Domestic Violence
  • Early childhood trauma and its adult manifestations
  • Generalized Anxiety Disorder
  • High-functioning anxiety
  • Imposter Syndrome
  • Infidelity
  • LGBTQ+
  • LGBTQ Family Development
  • Marriage Counseling
  • Open Relationships
  • Perinatal Mood/Anxiety Disorders
  • Postpartum Anxiety
  • Postpartum Depression
  • Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
  • Relationship Conflict
  • Sexual Trauma
  • Trauma Recovery
  • Veterans / Military Families
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Julia Malone remote and phone therapy in California
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Eric van der Voort
Together, we will:

Find ways for you to better manage stress and painful feelings, examine and challenge unhelpful thinking, explore new ways of interacting with yourself and others, and create more purpose & pleasure in your life (both in & out of the bedroom)!


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Together, we will:

Find ways for you to better manage stress and painful feelings, examine and challenge unhelpful thinking, explore new ways of interacting with yourself and others, and create more purpose & pleasure in your life (both in & out of the bedroom)!

Something to know about my approach is:

As a psychologist, I am collaborative, empowering, kink-affirming, and evidence-based. An eclectic provider, I draw from CBT, Motivational Interviewing, ACT, psychodynamic, humanistic, and sex therapy models when working with patients.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Addictions
  • Alcohol Use Disorders
  • Anxiety
  • Communication Issues
  • Compulsive Sexuality / Hypersexuality
  • Couples Counseling
  • Couples issues
  • Couples sex therapy
  • Couples Therapy
  • COVID 19 Stress and Anxiety
  • Engagement and Marriage
  • Front Line Workers
  • Generalized Anxiety
  • Generalized Anxiety Disorder
  • grief
  • Grief counseling
  • Guilt
  • Healthcare workers
  • High-functioning anxiety
  • High-Functioning Depression
  • Kink Community
  • Marriage
  • Marriage Counseling
  • Out of Control Sexual Behavior
  • Pornography Addiction
  • Sex Addiction
  • Sex Anxiety
  • Sex problems
  • Sex Therapy
  • Sexual Health Issues
  • Sexual Issues
  • Shame
  • Social Anxiety
  • Stress
  • Substance Use
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Eric van der Voort remote and phone therapy in California
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Darren Santos
Together, we will:

Build a relationship and environment that works best for you, where your feedback matters, and we collaborate to help reach your personal goals at a pace that you decide. Even if you're not sure where to go, you've come to the right place.


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Together, we will:

Build a relationship and environment that works best for you, where your feedback matters, and we collaborate to help reach your personal goals at a pace that you decide. Even if you're not sure where to go, you've come to the right place.

Something to know about my approach is:

I will listen, highlight your strengths, and help to uncover where your distress is coming from. Together we can explore your present and past, to fine tune what tools you need to take control and create the future you want to build for yourself.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Anxiety
  • Asian and Pacific Islander Issues
  • Infidelity
  • Life Transitions
  • Non-monogamy
  • Relationship Distress
  • Self Esteem & Confidence Issues
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Darren Santos remote and phone therapy in California
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Emmily Weldon
Together, we will:

We will work together to explore what is holding you back and work to address those barriers in your life. You will thrive with a toolkit of strategies and tools to reframe negative thoughts, disperse anxiety, and how to advocate for yourself.


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Together, we will:

We will work together to explore what is holding you back and work to address those barriers in your life. You will thrive with a toolkit of strategies and tools to reframe negative thoughts, disperse anxiety, and how to advocate for yourself.

Something to know about my approach is:

Therapy will not only allow you a safe space to talk and process, but also offer education and tools to help regulate your anxiety and other stressors that feel like they are holding you back.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Boundaries
  • Codependency
  • High-functioning anxiety
  • Partners & Family of Addiction
  • Partners & family of mental health issues
  • Pre-Marital Counseling
  • Self Esteem & Confidence Issues
  • Shame
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Emmily Weldon remote and phone therapy in California, Florida, Iowa
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Melissa Russiano
Together, we will:

Together we will develop skills to overcome stress, perfectionism, being overwhelmed, and maybe burned out. I see you as an authentically imperfect human, self-driven, and committed. Together we will empower you to be able to see that in you too.


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Picture of Melissa Russiano, therapist in California, Florida, Ohio, Pennsylvania, Tennessee, Texas
VIEW PROFILE
Together, we will:

Together we will develop skills to overcome stress, perfectionism, being overwhelmed, and maybe burned out. I see you as an authentically imperfect human, self-driven, and committed. Together we will empower you to be able to see that in you too.

Something to know about my approach is:

I am empowering, compassionate, empathetic, supportive, and truly am committed to partnering with you to achieving your ultimate goals. However, I can be very direct in order to hold you accountable to the concrete goals you have set for you.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Burn Out
  • Chronic stress
  • Imposter Syndrome
  • Shame
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Melissa Russiano remote and phone therapy in California, Florida, Ohio, Pennsylvania, Tennessee, Texas