What Is Anxiety and Do I Have It?

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Anxiety Related Questions

How many of y’all have searched the following on Google:

  • What is anxiety
  • How to relieve stress
  • Why am I anxious all the time
  • How to reduce anxiety
  • Why is my heart beating so fast
  • Symptoms of anxiety attack
  • Why can’t I fall asleep

Well, I’m here to tell you that you are not alone. According to ADAA, anxiety disorders are very common and affect 18.1% of adults in the United States. Moreover, It affects everyone differently. As a result, some may feel nervous about the future while others feel worried of what others may think of them. Additionally, the disorder shows up as both physical and mental symptoms.


  • Increased heart rate
  • Muscle tension
  • Difficulty falling asleep or staying asleep
  • Being easily fatigued
  • Nausea
  • Shaking
  • Sweating
  • Feeling shortness of breath
  • Restlessness
  • Difficulty focusing
  • Irritability
  • Uncontrollable worry
  • Racing thoughts
  • Feeling of impending doom
  • Depersonalization

This list is not exhaustive, and there are many other symptoms that you may experience. These symptoms may sound familiar to many of you, and that may cause worrisome thoughts.

First, I want you to know that everyone feels anxious at many points in their daily lives. Secondly, anxiety is not the enemy. It is a human emotion that allows us to function and survive. Lastly, a little bit of anxiety helps us perform when we’re taking an exam or giving a presentation.

It is certainly helping me write this blog! It is the reason human beings have survived for so many centuries!

So I Have Anxiety…What Now?

Some of you may already have ways to coping Others may be worried about what to do about it. I want you to give yourself a minute to think about how you react in anxiety provoking situations.

  • What is most likely your current coping mechanism?
  • Is your anxiety keeping you from functioning in your daily life?
  • How is what you’re doing helping you or keeping you in a cycle of anxious thoughts?
  • Is it negatively affecting your relationships, work, education, etc.?

Maybe it’s time to talk to a therapist. Therapy can help with managing your worries by using different evidence-based practices to accept your feelings, rationalize your thoughts, and increase positive coping skills. Furthermore, it can also help with recognizing whether your lifestyle is impacting your mental health. Your therapist may suggest changes in your caffeine intake, sleep hygiene, and exercise routine.



Sanna Khoja, M.Ed., LPC is a South Asian therapist in Houston, TX. She specializes in anxiety-based issues including social anxiety, PTSD, and OCD. Sanna enjoys working with young adults who struggle with perfectionism, life transitions, identity, and self-esteem. She provides EXRP/ERP, EMDR, and compassionate, person-centered therapy.

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