3 Simple Steps for Coping With Disaster

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After any sort of disaster, such as a hurricane, snowstorm, fire, shooting, chemical spill, and others, you can have many different kinds of reactions that are perfectly normal. You might feel the following:

  • Fear for your safety or for others 
  • Relief that you are safe 
  • Angry at disaster or disaster response 
  • Numb in mind and body 
  • Distant from others 
  • Sleepy 
  • Overwhelmed 
  • Apathetic 
  • And many more emotions 

You might be wondering “Why is it important for me to take care of my mental health after a disaster?”

  • To help you stay calm to make better decisions for your health and safety 
  • To help you identify immediate needs during recovery
  • To ensure you are able to help others who you want to support 
  • To potentially lessen long-term psychological effects of a disaster

Step 1: Identify stress responses 

Believe it or not, just identifying your reactions to a stressful event can help you feel more in control. Try asking yourself: 

 

What emotions am I feeling after the disaster?

 

How am I acting after the disaster? 

 

What thoughts am I having after the disaster? 

 

How is my body feeling after the disaster?

 

What sensations am I experiencing in my body after the disaster?

 

Step 2: Take care of your body first 

When your body feels safe, it is much easier for your mind to follow. It is very difficult to feel stressed in a relaxed body. 

 

Take a deep breath and close your eyes. What does your body need to feel safe? Your body might need the following: 

  • Blanket 
  • Water 
  • 5 Minute Rest  
  • Snack 
  • Space 
  • Restroom

Step 3: Practice 2 or more 30 second coping skills 

  • Breathe – Take a deep breath in through your nose and breathe slowly out through your mouth. Repeat 2x. 
  • Grounding – Name 4 things you can see, 3 things you can hear, and two things you can touch. 
  • Control – Name 3 of your top worries. Then categorize them into 3 columns: things within your control, things kind of in your control, and things outside of your control. 

With these tools, you can feel more prepared during emergencies and disasters.

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