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Find Infidelity Therapists & Counselors in San Mateo, CA.

 

Infidelity is so widespread that most of us will deal with it in some form or another. If you’re in a relationship that has been touched by infidelity, you may be aware of the destruction it can cause. Whether you’ve had an affair or you’re reeling after finding out your partner cheated, you may be experiencing a range of emotions and mental issues, from hate and guilt to depression and PTSD.

It can also be difficult to address your relationship’s underlying issues at home while emotions are running high. This is where a licensed therapist can help. Whether you are located in downtown San Mateo, the suburbs of San Mateo, other nearby places such as San Bruno, Daly City, or anywhere else in California, Mental Health Match can help you easily find an experienced therapist or counselor who best meets your needs.

Signs You Should Consider Infidelity Therapy

Here are some signs that you should consider infidelity therapy:

  • You feel depressed and find it difficult to get through the day.
  • You have considered being violent towards yourself or someone else.
  • You are uncertain about how you should move forward or if you should end your relationship.
  • You feel guilt or shame about your partner’s infidelity.
  • You feel like you can never trust anyone again.
  • You feel like you might commit infidelity again

If any of the above apply to you, we advise you to consider infidelity therapy and get on the path to infidelity recovery. To find out more about how to move forward, read licensed therapist Rebecca Ray’s guide to infidelity recovery.

Recover with an Infidelity Therapist

Infidelity recovery can go much smoother with a trained professional to help you through the ups and downs of healing. With Mental Health Match, finding a qualified infidelity therapist is easy! Start by browsing experts below or by using our free therapist matching tool.

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Eric van der Voort
Together, we will:

Work to find ways you can better manage stress and painful feelings, examine and challenge your unhelpful thinking, explore new ways of interacting with yourself and others, and journey toward pursuing more pleasure in your life!


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Together, we will:

Work to find ways you can better manage stress and painful feelings, examine and challenge your unhelpful thinking, explore new ways of interacting with yourself and others, and journey toward pursuing more pleasure in your life!

Something to know about my approach is:

Active, collaborative, empowering, kink-affirming, and evidence-based. I draw primarily from CBT, Motivational Interviewing, ACT, DBT, psychodynamic, humanistic, and sex therapy models when conceptualizing and treating clients.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Acute Grief
  • Addictions
  • Alcohol Use Disorders
  • Anxiety
  • Communication Issues
  • Compulsive Sexuality / Hypersexuality
  • COVID 19 Stress and Anxiety
  • Front Line Workers
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  • Generalized Anxiety Disorder
  • grief
  • Grief counseling
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  • Healthcare workers
  • High-functioning anxiety
  • High-Functioning Depression
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  • Pornography Addiction
  • Sex Addiction
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  • Sex problems
  • Sex Therapy
  • Sexual Health Issues
  • Sexual Issues
  • Shame
  • Social Anxiety
  • Stress
  • Substance Use issues
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Christina Dee
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Explore and release both the pain of the past and the fear of the future while strengthening the capacity to meet life’s challenges with a balanced mind and compassionate, resilient heart.


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Explore and release both the pain of the past and the fear of the future while strengthening the capacity to meet life’s challenges with a balanced mind and compassionate, resilient heart.

Something to know about my approach is:

My psychotherapy practice integrates psychodynamic, existential, Jungian, trauma-informed, neuroscience, meditative-based, somatic and depth approaches to psychological growth, emotional healing, and spiritual transformation.

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  • Aging and Getting Older
  • Anxiety
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  • grief
  • Grief counseling
  • Healing from Relationships
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  • Loneliness
  • Meaning of Life
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  • Moving and Relocation
  • Panic
  • Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
  • quarter life crisis
  • Racial justice
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  • Relationship Exploration and Enhancement
  • Relationship Patterns
  • Secondary Trauma
  • Self care
  • Self-Compassion
  • Self-love
  • Social media use
  • Spiritual Exploration
  • Spiritual Trauma
  • Starting College
  • Stress Management
  • Trauma Recovery
  • Trust Issues
  • Unmet Emotional Needs
  • Vicarious Trauma
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  • Work stress
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Jonathan Flannes
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I’m here to help you live a life that's right for you - not others. Together, we'll treat the pain holding you back from being the person you want to be. We'll heal both the roots of the issues you’re experiencing and build a life free of fear.


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Together, we will:

I’m here to help you live a life that's right for you - not others. Together, we'll treat the pain holding you back from being the person you want to be. We'll heal both the roots of the issues you’re experiencing and build a life free of fear.

Something to know about my approach is:

Often, my therapy involves individual/couples counseling, Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). My focuses include: a) anxiety and trauma b) substance abuse, c) couples and relationships.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Addictive behaviors
  • Anxiety
  • Artists & Creative Personalities
  • Couples issues
  • Couples Therapy
  • Depression
  • EMDR
  • Grief counseling
  • Mental Health and Drug Use
  • Relationship Conflict
  • Substance Abuse Education
  • Substance Abuse Intervention
  • Trauma EMDR
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Jonathan Flannes remote and phone therapy in California
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Jason Shoemaker
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Plan your treatment based on your individual needs, providing a clear path to reach your goals for therapy.


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Together, we will:

Plan your treatment based on your individual needs, providing a clear path to reach your goals for therapy.

Something to know about my approach is:

My approach is direct, but with care and comfort.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Addiction Counseling
  • Addictive behaviors
  • Anxiety Disorders
  • Compulsive Sexuality / Hypersexuality
  • Depression
  • Gay Identity
  • LGBTQ+
  • Pornography Addiction
  • Sex Addiction
  • Substance Addiction Programs
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Jason Shoemaker remote and phone therapy in California, Florida
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Johana M. de Oca
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Identify stressors, explore your thought process, repair feelings, ease anxieties caused by experience, work through attachment issues that may come from past trauma, as well as any feelings of sadness/depression as a result of collective patterns.


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Together, we will:

Identify stressors, explore your thought process, repair feelings, ease anxieties caused by experience, work through attachment issues that may come from past trauma, as well as any feelings of sadness/depression as a result of collective patterns.

Something to know about my approach is:

I want to help you explore the root of the problem, find your voice, problem solve, strengthen your skills, & challenge distorted thoughts & feelings to move you towards the life you want. My approach is individualized, structured and at your pace.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Anxiety
  • Betrayal Trauma
  • Childhood Trauma
  • Depression
  • Infidelity
  • Life Stress
  • Major Accidents
  • Past Abuse
  • Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
  • Relationships
  • Trauma
  • Violence
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Johana  M. de Oca remote and phone therapy in California