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Kimberly Cotton

My approach to therapy: I help you work through what’s overwhelming you — so life feels lighter again. Using mindfulness, present-centered therapy, harm reduction, and a person-centered approach, I offer a safe, supportive space for healing. If you're ready to feel more grounded and empowered, book your appointment today.

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Joe Smith

My approach to therapy: I utilize evidence-based approaches, but with a strong emphasis on seeing the whole individual and understanding their problems and path as unique.

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Geri Weitzman

My approach to therapy: I don't believe in a one-size-fits-all approach. Some clients prefer therapy to be an affirming space to be seen and heard; others wish to go deeply into core issues; still others wish a more goal oriented space. I am happy to accommodate your needs.

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Mindy Edwards

My approach to therapy: I believe that therapy is about human connection and creating a safe environment to explore and learn more about yourself. I take my clients' mental health and other issues very seriously, but I also tend to use humor in my approach.

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Elliot Wyman

My approach to therapy: I believe therapy should feel collaborative and empowering. As a queer and transgender counselor, I understand the importance of identity exploration and creating space where all parts of you are welcomed. I use an integrative approach combining Psychodynamic, CBT, and Mindfulness techniques tailored to your unique needs and goals.

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Alexandra Sanders

My approach to therapy: My approach is warm, compassionate, non-judgmental, safe, and collaborative. One strength is my ability to develop and maintain trust with people, have seen the value in earning trust with others through their improvement in the process. I approach people with curiosity to gain a better understanding of their perspectives, experiences, values, and beliefs.

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Lauren Matern

My approach to therapy: I have a Feminist Narrative ACT & Gottman approach to helping clients with anxiety, trauma, depression, & relationship issues. We talk about you, your history, family, culture, what would be most helpful in this moment & moving forward.

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Lee Goldstein

My approach to therapy: My approach is person-centered and grounded in an intersectional and trauma-informed perspective, I draw from Psychodynamic, Inner Child Work, DBT, and Internal Family Systems therapy to help you identify and break patterns and cycles that no longer serve you.

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Jessica Goehring

My approach to therapy: I believe you are the expert of your own story. I use a strength-based, person-centered lens that blends evidence-based practices with cultural humility and social justice, helping you feel empowered and equipped with tools for growth.

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Carly Shaul

My approach to therapy: I help teens, adults, and relationship structures explore their lives in order to improve their communication and strengthen their connections. Whether you’re navigating anxiety, neurodivergence, confusion about life, sexual difficulties, relationship stress, or major life transitions, I’m ready to meet you where you’re at with warmth and care.

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Find Gender Identity Therapists & Counselors in San Mateo, CA.

Gender identity can be a complicated issue to understand, especially when you feel like you are a different gender than the one assigned to you at birth. No matter if you feel like you are transgender, nonbinary, or gender fluid, the right support can help you gain clarity and feel more confident in who you are and how you express your gender identity.

Mental Health Match can help you easily find an experienced therapist or counselor who best meets your needs.

Signs You Can Benefit from Therapy for Gender Identity

It can be difficult to decide whether you need professional help to understand and embrace your gender identity.

Here are some signs a therapist can help you:

  • You’re unsure of your gender identity.
  • You get uneasy or anxious when asked for pronouns.
  • You have symptoms of Gender Dysphoria, such as fantasizing about being another gender or feeling profound discomfort or disgust with your own anatomy.
  • You feel hopeless for being able to live as your authentic self.
  • You feel ready to transition genders but don’t know where to start.
  • You have conflict with friends or family who don’t respect your gender identity.

If any of the above describe you, it’s time to consider therapy. A good gender identity therapist won’t try to change who you are; rather, they will help you explore and embrace who you are.

If you’re interested in reading further, check out our Guide to Mental Health Care for People Who Are Transgender by Dr. ks Stanley.

Find Gender Identity Counseling and Therapy Today!

Left untreated, gender identity conflicts can have negative effects on your mental health. Gender dysphoria or Gender Identity Disorder can lead to depression and even physical harm in severe cases - so, the time to seek treatment is now. And Mental Health Match can help by matching you with a gender identity therapist near you. Start by browsing experts above or by using our free therapist matching tool.


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