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Find Couples Therapy Therapists & Counselors in Santa Barbara, CA.

 

Are you and your partner struggling to resolve your relationship issues? Mental Health Match can find you an experienced couples therapist to bring you and your partner closer together and create a happier, more fulfilling partnership.

Whether you are located in downtown Santa Barbara, the suburbs of Santa Barbara, other nearby places such as Ventura, Lompoc, or anywhere else in California, Mental Health Match can help you easily find an experienced therapist or counselor who best meets your needs.

Signs It is Time to Seek Couples Therapy

Therapy is often a last ditch effort to save a relationship, but it shouldn’t be that way. While couples therapists can help you at any point in your relationship, you should seek couples therapy right when things start to feel difficult. Below are 5 signs it’s time to see a couples therapist:

  • Communication breakdowns are frequent.
  • There has been infidelity.
  • The relationship feels like a roommate situation.
  • Physical and emotional intimacy are lacking.
  • Separation or divorce has been mentioned.

There is Hope: Start Couples Therapy Today

When your relationship takes a turn for the worse, you may feel lost and powerless, but there is still hope. With couples therapy, you and your partner can gain a deeper connection, air out your feelings, become more self-aware, and grow leaps and bounds as a couple. Read about how Barack and Michelle Obama used couples therapy to achieve a deeper level of connectedness.

Santa Barbara, CA Couples Therapists - List Your Practice on Mental Health Match

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Mason Lewerenz
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Help you discover who you are as a holistic being. Whether that's in realms like sexuality and gender or self-esteem, relationships, or career. We will explore your parts and bring them together to strengthen you are a whole.


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Help you discover who you are as a holistic being. Whether that's in realms like sexuality and gender or self-esteem, relationships, or career. We will explore your parts and bring them together to strengthen you are a whole.

Something to know about my approach is:

I practice Eclectic Therapy. I don't believe in one-size therapy so I tend to tailor my approach to what works best for each client. Some of the theories I use are: Relational, Humanistic, Cognitive-Behavioral, Attachment, and Psychodynamic.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Anxiety
  • Consensual Non-Monogamy
  • Depression
  • Gender Identity and Affirmation
  • Kink
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Transitions
  • Open Relationships
  • Polyamory
  • Relationship Distress
  • Social Anxiety
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Jill Zatyko
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I learn as much, or more, from my clients as they do from me. In my practice no topic is off limit from sex to politics. I want my clients to feel comfortable talking about anything and everything.


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I learn as much, or more, from my clients as they do from me. In my practice no topic is off limit from sex to politics. I want my clients to feel comfortable talking about anything and everything.

Something to know about my approach is:

I integrate a variety of therapeutic approaches to offer a highly personalized approach that fits your style and preferences. I include DBT, ACT, Mindfulness, Solution-Focused, Person-Centered, Trauma-Focused, and Attachment-based therapies.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Codependency
  • Empowering women
  • Feminism
  • Gender Identity and Affirmation
  • Illness Anxiety Disorder
  • Life Transitions
  • Major Depressive Disorder
  • Open Relationships
  • Parent-Child Relationship
  • Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
  • Relationship Conflict
  • Self Esteem & Confidence Issues
  • Trauma
  • Young Women
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Kristen VanKlootwyk
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Create a secure attachment from which you can safely come into your body and heart to find liberation from your pain. Using somatic and mindful practices, explore your relationship to self and others, patterns, needs, wounding and desires.


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Create a secure attachment from which you can safely come into your body and heart to find liberation from your pain. Using somatic and mindful practices, explore your relationship to self and others, patterns, needs, wounding and desires.

Something to know about my approach is:

I am a systemic and relational therapist, an educator and a scientist by training, a curious and open hearted human by nature. I use mindful, somatic and narrative tools in my work with individuals, dyads and families. All are welcome here.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Depressive Disorders
  • Generalized Anxiety
  • Life Transitions
  • Relationship issues
  • Social-emotional learning
  • Teen issues
  • Women's Issues
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Michael DeMarco
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Practical therapeutic tools for daily living and learning to apply those fluently to big-picture concepts and themes in your life.


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Practical therapeutic tools for daily living and learning to apply those fluently to big-picture concepts and themes in your life.

Something to know about my approach is:

We use an engaging, data-driven approach to monitor your progress to make sure what we're doing translates into better lived daily mental health and well-being.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Adjustment Disorders
  • Anxiety Disorders
  • Depression
  • Existential Crisis
  • Existential Issues
  • LGBTQ+
  • Open Relationships
  • Psychedelic Integration
  • Relationship issues
  • Sex Anxiety
  • Sex Therapy
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Michael DeMarco remote and phone therapy in California, New York, Utah, Vermont
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Katherine Smith
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Take our time and discover the best way for us to work together. As a result, we learn a lot about you through our interactions and get to know you as a whole person: that parts that you show the world, the parts you hide, and the parts you avoid.


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Together, we will:

Take our time and discover the best way for us to work together. As a result, we learn a lot about you through our interactions and get to know you as a whole person: that parts that you show the world, the parts you hide, and the parts you avoid.

Something to know about my approach is:

I take my time to get to know you. Our developing relationship is the foundation of your treatment, which is tailored specifically to you. There is no "one size fits all" therapy with me.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Bereavement
  • Breakups
  • grief
  • Interpersonal Problems
  • Major Depressive Disorder
  • Persistant Depressive Disorder
  • Personal Development
  • Relational difficulties
  • Relationship Distress
  • Suicidality
  • Suicidal thoughts
  • Suicide loss
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Katherine Smith remote and phone therapy in California