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Shame Therapists in Santa Barbara, CA


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Joshua De La Cruz

My approach to therapy: I take a calm, straightforward approach that helps teen boys open up without pressure. I focus on practical tools they can actually use at home, school, and with friends, making therapy feel useful, not overwhelming.

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Alison Murphey

My approach to therapy: I operate from a more integrative treatment style and use different tools and techniques to create a completely personal and tailored treatment plan for therapy. We will work as a team to create the most unique and individualized approach to treatment, that meets your needs.

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Traci Moreno

My approach to therapy: Our vision is to work with the WHOLE person- mentally, emotionally, spiritually & physically. One person cannot do this all, which is why Free Spirit teamed up with other practitioners who specialize in these specific areas of healing.

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Sara Fischer Sanford

My approach to therapy: I specialize in supporting clients to heal their deepest trauma and trust again. My approach is warm, relational, and grounded in both neuroscience and deep compassion. I offer a space where you don’t have to explain everything—where your body, emotions, and story are all welcome. Together, we’ll gently untangle what’s been holding you back so you can grow

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Dakota Westlake

My approach to therapy: I use mindfulness, DBT, CBT, and ACT frequently in sessions. I typically see my clients for 3 months-2 years and we get deep, real, and raw to start to heal. I'm not a therapist that is going to just sit back we are going to reveal, heal and prevail.

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Andy Studer

My approach to therapy: I work with high-functioning creative people who are experiencing relationship challenges, anxiety, or feel overwhelmed by their thoughts, memories, and feelings. I consider your lived experience from a multicultural and trauma-informed lens, and use evidence-based approaches like EMDR and I-CBT to help you create lasting feelings of safety and self-trust.

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Kimberlie Nunley

My approach to therapy: This is your journey and you deserve specialized support …Are you having trouble functioning while experiencing unproductive anxiety symptoms, undesired thoughts, feelings, actions? I provide an individualized approach to your healing.

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Angela Medina

My approach to therapy: I'm curious about ones' uniqueness and ask a variety of questions in hopes to help you look at yourself from a different lens. As a client you may find that I gently challenge self-prescribed beliefs to identify maladaptive schemas.

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Monica Demian

My approach to therapy: My therapeutic approach is Person Centered, which means that I prioritizes my clients' autonomy and foster a collaborative relationship with you. This approach ensures that clients are actively involved in the therapy process.

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Stacie Benick

My approach to therapy: it is a down-to-earth, empathic one, sprinkled with humor and compassion. My goal is to create an atmosphere where you feel comfortable and safe enough to express your most intimate thoughts, feelings, behaviors, and experiences.

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Find Shame Therapists & Counselors in Santa Barbara, CA.

Is shame negatively affecting your life? Many people feel shame for all sorts of reasons, but shame is often a weapon used in bullying behaviors to make others feel defenseless, embarrassed, or confused. If you are experiencing these symptoms of shame, then it's a good idea to seek professional assistance from a licensed therapist, who can help you make sense of those feelings and stop them at the source.

Mental Health Match can help you easily find an experienced therapist or counselor who best meets your needs.

Common Signs of Shame

If you’re wondering whether you’re experiencing shame, this section is for you. Shame can bring on a myriad of symptoms, including:

  • Feelings of vulnerability.
  • Feelings of rejection.
  • Feeling small in relation to others.
  • Worrying about failing.
  • Worrying about what others may think about you.

This is not an exhaustive list. Licensed therapist Aaron Mason wrote this article about shame, imperfections, and the difference between guilt and shame.

Don’t Wait: Get Shame Counseling Today!

It’s totally normal to feel shame in the short term, but when these feelings linger or grow over time, they can have detrimental effects on your self-esteem and mental health as a whole. Therapy can help tremendously by helping you discover the source of your shame and how to overcome it. And Mental Health Match can help you find a quality therapist to get started. Start by browsing above or using our free therapist matching tool.


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