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Shame Therapists in Santa Barbara, CA


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Marc Bruderer

My approach to therapy: I believe that emotional insights are the cornerstone of therapeutic change and growth. Having been a client myself, I understand that trust is a primary concern for new clients. My clients appreciate that I can relate to their experiences.

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Dakota Westlake

My approach to therapy: I use mindfulness, DBT, CBT, and ACT frequently in sessions. I typically see my clients for 3 months-2 years and we get deep, real, and raw to start to heal. I'm not a therapist that is going to just sit back we are going to reveal, heal and prevail.

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Emily Miles

My approach to therapy: I work through a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy lens, which looks at thoughts, feelings and behaviors and how they are connected. Feelings like these can feel unmanageable, so we will focus on how to look at behaviors and perceptions to feel better.

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Amy Carnes

My approach to therapy: While I am trained in various modalities, my therapeutic style tends to be empathetic, strengths-focused and solution-oriented. In addition to talk therapy, I believe that self-care, community and holistic health play important roles in well-being.

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Emmily Weldon

My approach to therapy: As a client, you will find a safe and supportive space to explore the impact of trauma with compassion and understanding. My approach is centered on helping you heal, build resilience, and regain control over your life at your own pace.

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Sarah Finch

My approach to therapy: I have a strong passion for healing. I believe in the power of restorative relationships, that everyone has the ability to rewrite unhelpful life narratives, the strength to transform their life, and break generational cycles of trauma.

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Julie Williams

My approach to therapy: You feeling heard and accepted is my primary goal. Skill building such as mindfulness, self compassion, unhooking and identifying what matters to you in life is my second goal. I work within your goals for how you wish your life could be and change the wanting into the doing step by step.

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Kayla Hawking

My approach to therapy: I offer a safe space where you can slow down and explore the parts of yourself that need care, healing, or a voice. We’ll look at how past experiences still influence you today while also focusing on what you want moving forward. My role is to support your growth, build confidence, and help you feel more connected to yourself and others.

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Ketsuree Maneewong

My approach to therapy: Reaching out for help can be hard, but you’re not alone in your struggles. Whether you feel overwhelmed, weighed down by self-doubt, or carrying a heavy emotional burden, others understand. Anxiety can make your thoughts race and relaxation feel impossible, and depression can drain motivation. I’m here to support you.

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Alex Arendall

My approach to therapy: Are you exhausted from feeling like something is "wrong" with you? Struggling with anxiety, depression, and suicidal thoughts can often times make you feel broken and completely disconnected from the world around you. In our journey together, the work isn't about being "broken" or like something is "wrong".

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Find Shame Therapists & Counselors in Santa Barbara, CA.

Is shame negatively affecting your life? Many people feel shame for all sorts of reasons, but shame is often a weapon used in bullying behaviors to make others feel defenseless, embarrassed, or confused. If you are experiencing these symptoms of shame, then it's a good idea to seek professional assistance from a licensed therapist, who can help you make sense of those feelings and stop them at the source.

Mental Health Match can help you easily find an experienced therapist or counselor who best meets your needs.

Common Signs of Shame

If you’re wondering whether you’re experiencing shame, this section is for you. Shame can bring on a myriad of symptoms, including:

  • Feelings of vulnerability.
  • Feelings of rejection.
  • Feeling small in relation to others.
  • Worrying about failing.
  • Worrying about what others may think about you.

This is not an exhaustive list. Licensed therapist Aaron Mason wrote this article about shame, imperfections, and the difference between guilt and shame.

Don’t Wait: Get Shame Counseling Today!

It’s totally normal to feel shame in the short term, but when these feelings linger or grow over time, they can have detrimental effects on your self-esteem and mental health as a whole. Therapy can help tremendously by helping you discover the source of your shame and how to overcome it. And Mental Health Match can help you find a quality therapist to get started. Start by browsing above or using our free therapist matching tool.


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