Find Shame Therapists & Counselors in Santa Barbara, CA.

 

Is shame negatively affecting your life? Many people feel shame for all sorts of reasons, but shame is often a weapon used in bullying behaviors to make others feel defenseless, embarrassed, or confused. If you are experiencing these symptoms of shame, then it's a good idea to seek professional assistance from a licensed therapist, who can help you make sense of those feelings and stop them at the source.

Whether you are located in downtown Santa Barbara, the suburbs of Santa Barbara, other nearby places such as Ventura, Lompoc, or anywhere else in California, Mental Health Match can help you easily find an experienced therapist or counselor who best meets your needs.

Common Signs of Shame

If you’re wondering whether you’re experiencing shame, this section is for you. Shame can bring on a myriad of symptoms, including:

  • Feelings of vulnerability.
  • Feelings of rejection.
  • Feeling small in relation to others.
  • Worrying about failing.
  • Worrying about what others may think about you.

This is not an exhaustive list. Licensed therapist Aaron Mason wrote this article about shame, imperfections, and the difference between guilt and shame.

Don’t Wait: Get Shame Counseling Today!

It’s totally normal to feel shame in the short term, but when these feelings linger or grow over time, they can have detrimental effects on your self-esteem and mental health as a whole. Therapy can help tremendously by helping you discover the source of your shame and how to overcome it. And Mental Health Match can help you find a quality therapist to get started. Start by browsing below or using our free therapist matching tool.

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Amanda Hagos
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I partner with clients and families to rekindle joy and peace in their lives by increasing coping skills. For those struggling with disordered eating, I partner to support them in developing body acceptance and a return to nourishment.


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I partner with clients and families to rekindle joy and peace in their lives by increasing coping skills. For those struggling with disordered eating, I partner to support them in developing body acceptance and a return to nourishment.

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My approach is warm and I strive to partner with youth and families to provide additional support and tools in my in-person and virtual sessions. I invite my families and clients to try something new in a safe, supported, and nonjudgmental setting.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Anorexia
  • Anxiety
  • Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder (ARFID)
  • Body Acceptance
  • Body Image
  • Eating Disorders
  • Teen Depression
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Gain insight into Self-Concept, Self-Esteem, and Personal Development.


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Gain insight into Self-Concept, Self-Esteem, and Personal Development.

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My approach focuses on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, with an emphasis on Irrational Belief Systems and Thinking Errors.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Addictions
  • Addictive Behaviors
  • Anger
  • Anger Disorders
  • Anger Management
  • Career
  • Career Coaching
  • Depression
  • Domestic Violence
  • DOT Substance Abuse Evaluations
  • Forensics
  • Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
  • Rape and Sexual Assault
  • Self-Concept
  • Self-Esteem
  • Sports
  • Substance Use
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Nathan Li
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Regardless of the specific issue at hand, I firmly believe that effective therapy begins with a foundation of trust and respect. I also places a strong emphasis on action-oriented therapy, actively involving clients in the therapeutic process.


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Regardless of the specific issue at hand, I firmly believe that effective therapy begins with a foundation of trust and respect. I also places a strong emphasis on action-oriented therapy, actively involving clients in the therapeutic process.

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I strive to create a nurturing environment where clients can explore their inner landscapes, cultivate resilience, and embrace the possibilities of life.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Anxiety
  • Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)
  • Burnout
  • Career
  • Career Burnout
  • Career Change
  • Career Counseling
  • Confidence
  • Cultural Adjustment
  • Cultural Issues
  • Depression
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Life Changes
  • Life Transitions
  • Men
  • Relationship Distress
  • Self-Esteem
  • Stress
  • Traumatic Loss
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Jennifer Macias
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Some themes include-but are not limited to grief and loss, transitions, guilt, boundaries, communication, self-compassion, identifying feelings & patterns, practicing assertive communication and reframing thoughts.


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Some themes include-but are not limited to grief and loss, transitions, guilt, boundaries, communication, self-compassion, identifying feelings & patterns, practicing assertive communication and reframing thoughts.

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I use evidence-based practices and will create a concrete plan & work through it together to help you find relief. I will help you navigate difficult things, teach you to work through them and will support you through it all.

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  • Anxiety
  • Chronic Illness
  • Confidence
  • Depression
  • Grief
  • Life Adjustment
  • Self-Esteem
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Kerstin Hern
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Explore stories and emotions + learn coping skills/exercises (CBT, mindfulness, compassion) to gain awareness and insights that empower you to change undesirable thoughts and behaviors. Together, we'll transform stress, self-esteem & relationships.


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Explore stories and emotions + learn coping skills/exercises (CBT, mindfulness, compassion) to gain awareness and insights that empower you to change undesirable thoughts and behaviors. Together, we'll transform stress, self-esteem & relationships.

Something to know about my approach is:

I use evidence-based tools, skills, neuroscience education + somatic work, mindfulness and creativity blended into each client's unique strengths and gifts. This creates a space to be vulnerable, open up, uncover insights, and achieve your goals.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • ADHD in Womxn or Femme Populations
  • Adult ADHD
  • Anxiety
  • Attachment Issues
  • Complex PTSD (C-PTSD)
  • Complex Trauma
  • Confidence
  • Coping Skills
  • Couples
  • Depression
  • Distress Tolerance
  • Finding Meaning or Purpose
  • Friendships
  • Grief
  • Highly Sensitive People (HSPs)
  • Holistic Wellness
  • Inner Child
  • Intergenerational Trauma
  • Life Transitions
  • Meditation
  • Mindfulness
  • Mood Regulation
  • Negative Self-Talk
  • Neurodivergence
  • Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
  • Relationship Skills
  • Reparenting Yourself
  • Self-Actualization
  • Self-Compassion
  • Self-Esteem
  • Self-Regulation
  • Self-Worth
  • Sexual Trauma
  • Sex Workers
  • Spirituality
  • Spiritual Trauma
  • Stress
  • Teen Anxiety
  • Trauma
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