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Find Fighting Therapists & Counselors in La Mesa, CA.

 

Have you and your partner resorted to fighting? If the answer is "yes", then it’s time to seek help. Therapists help couples address unhealthy arguments and fights in their relationships, fostering a greater sense of calmness and unity.

Whether you are located in downtown La Mesa, the suburbs of La Mesa, other nearby places such as Chula Vista, National City, or anywhere else in California, Mental Health Match can help you easily find an experienced therapist or counselor who best meets your needs.

Stop the Fighting with Professional Guidance

It’s normal for couples to fight from time to time, but fighting is abnormal and destructive if:

  • It happens constantly.
  • It involves insults and disrespect.
  • The underlying issues are rarely resolved.
  • Things get physical.

If any of these things apply to you, there’s some room for improvement. With professional guidance from a licensed therapist, you and your partner can move past the destructive fighting and get to a much better place.

Find out more about fighting in relationships in this article.

Don’t Wait: Talk with a Therapist Today!

Finding the right therapist for you and your partner can be a monumental challenge -- that is, if you don’t use Mental Health Match. Within a few minutes, we can connect you to the most qualified relationship therapists in your area. Use our 5-step matching tool to get matched today!

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Jessi York
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Work to find your inner strength and hope. Deciding to start therapy can be a difficult choice and make you feel vulnerable and uncertain about the future. It's my goal to make this process as easy as possible since we all need help sometimes!


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Work to find your inner strength and hope. Deciding to start therapy can be a difficult choice and make you feel vulnerable and uncertain about the future. It's my goal to make this process as easy as possible since we all need help sometimes!

Something to know about my approach is:

I am passionate about working with children, teens, and adults to provide a safe space for the open exploration of thoughts/feelings. I utilize humor, direct approaches, and positive regard to help clients gain an understanding of their problems.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Anxiety
  • Child Therapy
  • Communication Skills
  • Depression
  • Life Transitions
  • Parent-Child Relationship
  • Teenagers
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Brett Ryan
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Come to an understanding of what is causing the difficulty for you or your relationship, create a plan to resolve the issues, and then journey towards healing and restoration


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Come to an understanding of what is causing the difficulty for you or your relationship, create a plan to resolve the issues, and then journey towards healing and restoration

Something to know about my approach is:

I am a EFT trained therapist which is known for helping couples resolve their problems, improve their communication, and restore their relationship. I am trained in EMDR which is known to help people with traumas they have experienced and anxiety.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Anxiety
  • Boundaries
  • Christian Counseling
  • Couples Therapy
  • First Responders
  • Trauma
  • Veterans / Military Families
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Brett Ryan remote and phone therapy in California
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Jason Markel
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Get you where you want to be! My job is to put myself out of a job. I work to show you that you can overcome difficult situations and circumstances, you can find the outcome you're hoping for and I"ll show you I'm with you in the journey.


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Get you where you want to be! My job is to put myself out of a job. I work to show you that you can overcome difficult situations and circumstances, you can find the outcome you're hoping for and I"ll show you I'm with you in the journey.

Something to know about my approach is:

I will bring a variety of approaches to get you the results you're seeking. Sometimes I will be soft, gentle and caring - other times I will push you and hold you accountable to your stated goals. I tailor my approach individually.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Generalized Anxiety Disorder
  • Inner Child Work
  • Interpersonal effectiveness
  • Interpersonal Problems
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life changes
  • Major Depressive Disorder
  • Relationship Distress
  • Religious Trauma
  • Self-Worth
  • Spiritual Exploration
  • Spiritual Trauma
  • transgender identity
  • Trauma
  • Work-Life Balance
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Kelsey Barbieri
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Discuss what is important to you! Whether it is processing something that happened during the week or digging into bigger trauma or negative beliefs, this is a space where you will always be heard.


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Discuss what is important to you! Whether it is processing something that happened during the week or digging into bigger trauma or negative beliefs, this is a space where you will always be heard.

Something to know about my approach is:

that I tailor it to each of my clients. No two people are the same and my work looks unique with each individual. I utilize Brainspotting often in my treatment with clients and think it is an incredible tool!

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Anxiety
  • Complex Trauma
  • Financial Anxiety
  • Financial Goals
  • Life Transitions
  • Performance Enhancement
  • Relationship Conflict
  • Self Esteem & Confidence Issues
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Kelsey Barbieri remote and phone therapy in Arizona, California, Nevada, Oklahoma, Vermont, Wyoming
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William James Jones
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Whether you struggle with social anxiety, low self-esteem, relationships distress, depression, loss, career change, or reconnecting with your purpose in life, I hope to help you cope, unblock barriers and deepen your understanding of yourself.


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Whether you struggle with social anxiety, low self-esteem, relationships distress, depression, loss, career change, or reconnecting with your purpose in life, I hope to help you cope, unblock barriers and deepen your understanding of yourself.

Something to know about my approach is:

I use an exclusive approach known as Integrative Depth Psychology where we explore issues through four pillars that make up my approach. I use cultural sensitive, humanistic, intersubjective, and Jungian modalities to set the groundwork for therapy.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Anger Management
  • Anxiety Disorders
  • Borderline Personality
  • Couples Therapy
  • Depression
  • Eating Disorders
  • Emotional regulation
  • Gender Identity and Affirmation
  • Identity Issues
  • Infidelity
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Transitions
  • Marriage Counseling
  • multicultural identity
  • Panic Disorders
  • Personality Disorders
  • Self Esteem & Confidence Issues
  • Social Anxiety
  • Social Justice
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William  James Jones remote and phone therapy in California