Find Fighting Therapists & Counselors in Santa Barbara, CA.

 

Have you and your partner resorted to fighting? If the answer is "yes", then it’s time to seek help. Therapists help couples address unhealthy arguments and fights in their relationships, fostering a greater sense of calmness and unity.

Whether you are located in downtown Santa Barbara, the suburbs of Santa Barbara, other nearby places such as Ventura, Lompoc, or anywhere else in California, Mental Health Match can help you easily find an experienced therapist or counselor who best meets your needs.

Stop the Fighting with Professional Guidance

It’s normal for couples to fight from time to time, but fighting is abnormal and destructive if:

  • It happens constantly.
  • It involves insults and disrespect.
  • The underlying issues are rarely resolved.
  • Things get physical.

If any of these things apply to you, there’s some room for improvement. With professional guidance from a licensed therapist, you and your partner can move past the destructive fighting and get to a much better place.

Find out more about fighting in relationships in this article.

Don’t Wait: Talk with a Therapist Today!

Finding the right therapist for you and your partner can be a monumental challenge -- that is, if you don’t use Mental Health Match. Within a few minutes, we can connect you to the most qualified relationship therapists in your area. Use our 5-step matching tool to get matched today!

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Dr. Michelle Wambach
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Sometimes there are issues you just can't talk about with friends or family-that's where I come in. Together we can figure out a way forward through your current difficulties so that you are stronger in the future and make healthier choices.


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Sometimes there are issues you just can't talk about with friends or family-that's where I come in. Together we can figure out a way forward through your current difficulties so that you are stronger in the future and make healthier choices.

Something to know about my approach is:

I offer a holistic approach that takes into account mind-body-spirit. I use cognitive-behavioral skills for fear reduction, self-soothing, and emotional clarity. As well as incorporating EMDR, EFT, and body-mindfulness techniques for lasting change.

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  • Aspergers
  • Codependency
  • Depression
  • Feeling Lost
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  • grief
  • High-functioning anxiety
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  • Self Esteem & Confidence Issues
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Dr. Michelle Wambach remote and phone therapy in California, Idaho, Oregon
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Darren Santos
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Build a relationship and environment that works best for you, where your feedback matters, and we collaborate to help reach your personal goals at a pace that you decide. Even if you're not sure where to go, you've come to the right place.


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Together, we will:

Build a relationship and environment that works best for you, where your feedback matters, and we collaborate to help reach your personal goals at a pace that you decide. Even if you're not sure where to go, you've come to the right place.

Something to know about my approach is:

I will listen, highlight your strengths, and help to uncover where your distress is coming from. Together we can explore your present and past, to fine tune what tools you need to take control and create the future you want to build for yourself.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Anxiety
  • Asian and Pacific Islander Issues
  • Infidelity
  • Life Transitions
  • Non-monogamy
  • Relationship Distress
  • Self Esteem & Confidence Issues
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Darren Santos remote and phone therapy in California
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Vanessa Cantu
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Together, we will explore your world, honor your vulnerable parts, change the way you think, and heal what needs to be healed.


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Together, we will explore your world, honor your vulnerable parts, change the way you think, and heal what needs to be healed.

Something to know about my approach is:

I use an eclectic approach that encompasses various methods to fit what YOU need in order to move forward. I synthesize psychodynamic therapy, CBT, and narrative therapy to tailor treatment specifically for you..

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  • Anxiety
  • Cultural Issues
  • Depression
  • Racial Trauma
  • Relationship issues
  • Trauma
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Jessica Magenheimer
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Shift your story to see your sensitivity as a strength. You’ll be a boundaries badass who feels confident with your decisions. You’ll take your perfectionism head on so you can live in the present. You’ll have concrete action steps toward goals!


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Shift your story to see your sensitivity as a strength. You’ll be a boundaries badass who feels confident with your decisions. You’ll take your perfectionism head on so you can live in the present. You’ll have concrete action steps toward goals!

Something to know about my approach is:

I consider there to be two paths to therapy; first: exploring, processing, and developing insight into your patterns and programming, and second: learning skills, tools and strategies to cope in the moment. We will tackle both!

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Anxiety
  • Highly Sensitive People
  • Perfectionism
  • Relationships
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Jessica Magenheimer remote and phone therapy in Alaska, California, Delaware, Nevada, North Dakota, Ohio, Oregon, Virginia
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Melissa Grisi
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As your therapist, we will create an individualized plan tailored to your needs and wants. Together we can explore your feelings, thoughts, history, beliefs, and patterns at your pace.


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Together, we will:

As your therapist, we will create an individualized plan tailored to your needs and wants. Together we can explore your feelings, thoughts, history, beliefs, and patterns at your pace.

Something to know about my approach is:

I use a holistic approach and offer EMDR, CBT, DBT, expressive arts, mindfulness and trauma-informed yoga to help you achieve your goals so you can live the life you deserve.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Addiction Counseling
  • Anxiety Disorders
  • Childhood Trauma
  • Complex Trauma
  • Couples Therapy
  • Marriage Counseling
  • Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
  • Relationships
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Melissa  Grisi remote and phone therapy in California