Find Fighting Therapists & Counselors in Santa Barbara, CA.

 

Have you and your partner resorted to fighting? If the answer is "yes", then it’s time to seek help. Therapists help couples address unhealthy arguments and fights in their relationships, fostering a greater sense of calmness and unity.

Whether you are located in downtown Santa Barbara, the suburbs of Santa Barbara, other nearby places such as Ventura, Lompoc, or anywhere else in California, Mental Health Match can help you easily find an experienced therapist or counselor who best meets your needs.

Stop the Fighting with Professional Guidance

It’s normal for couples to fight from time to time, but fighting is abnormal and destructive if:

  • It happens constantly.
  • It involves insults and disrespect.
  • The underlying issues are rarely resolved.
  • Things get physical.

If any of these things apply to you, there’s some room for improvement. With professional guidance from a licensed therapist, you and your partner can move past the destructive fighting and get to a much better place.

Find out more about fighting in relationships in this article.

Don’t Wait: Talk with a Therapist Today!

Finding the right therapist for you and your partner can be a monumental challenge -- that is, if you don’t use Mental Health Match. Within a few minutes, we can connect you to the most qualified relationship therapists in your area. Use our 5-step matching tool to get matched today!

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Esther Morales
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Primary focus is on creating a safe and nurturing environment where clients can explore their thoughts, feelings and behaviors openly to develop healthy coping mechanisms, improve communication skills and build stronger, more fulfilling relationships


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Primary focus is on creating a safe and nurturing environment where clients can explore their thoughts, feelings and behaviors openly to develop healthy coping mechanisms, improve communication skills and build stronger, more fulfilling relationships

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My empathetic and non-judgmental approach allows my clients to feel heard, understood and supported as they work towards positive change and personal growth.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Anxiety
  • Childhood Trauma
  • Depression
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Life Skills
  • Life Transitions
  • Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
  • Relational Trauma
  • Relationships
  • Stress
  • Trauma
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We will talk about what is behind the big emotions, where the patterns begin, what is working for you and how would you like to grow. Therapy is difficult, but worth the effort.


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We will talk about what is behind the big emotions, where the patterns begin, what is working for you and how would you like to grow. Therapy is difficult, but worth the effort.

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I do not believe in a 'one size fits all' route to therapy. I pull from different therapeutic approaches to help my clients reach their greatest version of themselves!

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  • Anxiety Disorders
  • Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)
  • Autism-Related Challenges
  • Autism Spectrum
  • Chronic Illness
  • Dating and Romance
  • Depression
  • Giftedness
  • Interracial Relationships
  • LGBTQ+
  • Mild Depression
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  • Parenting
  • Parenting Children With ADHD
  • Parenting Children With Autism
  • Parenting Special Needs Children
  • Postpartum Depression
  • Relationship Conflict
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  • Relationship Skills
  • Sibling Relationships
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  • Teen Depression
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  • Trauma From Abuse
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Through collaborative dialogue, we work together identify patterns of thinking, feeling and behaving that may be holding you back or causing distress.


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Through collaborative dialogue, we work together identify patterns of thinking, feeling and behaving that may be holding you back or causing distress.

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I believe in a client-centered approach to psychotherapy, tailored to meet your unique needs and goals. I employ a variety of therapeutic modalities such as IFS, CBT and mindfulness-based techniques.

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  • Depression
  • Divorce and Separation
  • Grief
  • Infidelity
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Come up with a plan to help you become your best self. Each individual is different, and I like to listen first before assuming I know what will work best for you moving forward.


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Come up with a plan to help you become your best self. Each individual is different, and I like to listen first before assuming I know what will work best for you moving forward.

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I view therapy as a partnership. My job is to find out where you want to go and give you the tools and steps to get there. We work together and get to celebrate all the wins you make along the way.

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  • Anxiety
  • Bipolar Disorder
  • Borderline Personality
  • Confidence
  • Conflict Resolution
  • Depression
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  • Racial or Ethnic Identity
  • Self-Acceptance
  • Self-Compassion
  • Self-Esteem
  • Self-Worth
  • Trauma
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Kevin Belsby
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Explore issues surrounding mood, relational or personal issues with a particular passion for improving familial and interpersonal relationships. We will strategize practical solutions with an eye toward familial healing and personal growth.


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Explore issues surrounding mood, relational or personal issues with a particular passion for improving familial and interpersonal relationships. We will strategize practical solutions with an eye toward familial healing and personal growth.

Something to know about my approach is:

I treat people as the experts in their own life experience. Our job together is explore the nature of their presenting issues and to discuss and strategize solutions that would best serve them and their loved ones toward agreed upon goals.

FOCUS AREAS:
  • Anxiety Disorders
  • Bipolar Disorder
  • Communication Skills
  • Faith and Spirituality
  • Geriatric
  • Marriage
  • Mood Disorders
  • Relational Trauma
  • Trauma-Related Disorders
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